Who Takes Care of Whom in Your Relationship?

Relationships are a big responsibility and constant work for both people in a couple—whether boyfriend or spouse, girlfriend or wife. Each person should make an effort for shared well-being, take care of responsibilities, and, of course, care for each other. Is that how it is for you? This test is designed for men and women who are already in a relationship or marriage but are facing difficulties and misunderstandings. If your relationship is not going the way you would like, the issue may be the role you take in different areas of life together. Often, one person has to become the main decision-maker and take all the responsibility on themselves. But a partnership means doing things together, sharing responsibilities, helping each other, and acting as a team.

If you are interested in what role you play in your relationship, take this test. Here you will get an overview of your relationship in several areas and find tips on how to improve it. Please note: the test evaluates only general relationship factors and does not take outside circumstances into account. The results include suggestions for how you might change your role toward one you would prefer. This is not a diagnosis or a set of instructions, because there is no one ideal set of roles for a couple. Whether to follow the advice is only your personal decision. Try to answer honestly so you can get a reliable overview. If you are ready, let’s begin!